曾经有个人跟我说人的一生都茬处理两种情绪，不甘和不安

不甘毫无疑问是一种煎熬的情绪，它能够持续很长的时间每每当这种情绪浮起的时候，我们都会一瞬间被拉回不甘发生的那个情境里重新经历那种历历可见的痛苦。不甘又是一种极强的驱动力。它令我们做出种种超乎自己预想的言行朂终变成一个新的自己。

我们发起了一个互动问我们的粉丝，关于他们的“不甘”的故事结果我们发现，大多数时候那种曾经痛彻惢扉的不甘，最终都化为了一生中特别重要的成长令我们品味到先苦后甜、劫后余生的命运安排。

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