1,不要怕每个人都应生活自理，鈈做啃老族放松心态。

2,很少有人一下子找到喜欢的工作很可能自己也不一定真正了解自己喜欢什么工作。只有在工作中了解

3,不能好高骛远，了解自己有没有与他人不一样的能力这样才能做到能力与工作匹配，有了喜欢的工作但没有能力去完成，这才叫痛苦

不要讓世界适合自己，要自己去适合环境与周围的人们友好相处，你会发现生长在一个美好的世界

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